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I Have A Mind Block About Sex. How To Overcome This ?

hi im 27 years of age i really love my boyfriend and everytime we get started im always thinking about how painful it will be when it goes in and it makes me push him away and i don t want to i really want to but just scared and when we try i just think why has itr not gone in please help i really love him
Thu, 19 Jan 2012
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welcome to healthcaremagic
you will have to be out of your fright
know your anatomy .feel your vagina yourself put your finger in it first one then two and see how easily they are accommodate in your vagina and you can not reach top of it
once you are sure allow your partner to feel your vagina by inserting fingers
vagina is so capacious it delivers the baby through it .don't be afraid .
during intercourse you take active part and be on top position and guide your partner's erect penis in your vagina keeping all the control with you
you sit on his penis[erect] and see it enters without any pain
once the first act is over your fright will pass away
and you are prepared for all the sexual acts
go ahead do it now
otherwise go for counselling with doctor

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I Have A Mind Block About Sex. How To Overcome This ?

welcome to healthcaremagic you will have to be out of your fright know your anatomy .feel your vagina yourself put your finger in it first one then two and see how easily they are accommodate in your vagina and you can not reach top of it once you are sure allow your partner to feel your vagina by inserting fingers vagina is so capacious it delivers the baby through it .don t be afraid . during intercourse you take active part and be on top position and guide your partner s erect penis in your vagina keeping all the control with you you sit on his penis[erect] and see it enters without any pain once the first act is over your fright will pass away and you are prepared for all the sexual acts go ahead do it now otherwise go for counselling with doctor