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I do not want a baby, I need your suggestion

I have done the unthinkable, and its all my fault. I've never meant for life to be this way, please help? I just found out I m pregnant today, by a married man. It s not that I don t think there was anything wrong with going with a married man I just loved him, it isn t like this is how I dreamed life would be when I was little. I don t know what to do, I m young and I don t want a baby, especially with someone that can t even be with me. I have screwed up in my life so many times but this, this I can t fix. I can t turn around. I m sitting here thinking that killing myself is the only way out of my life and my stupid decisions. I don t think I even deserve to live. I never meant life to turn out this way.
Asked On : Tue, 22 Dec 2009
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Don't think about your pregnancy as a fault or a mistake. It's a gift. So many women would do anything to get pregnant but they can't. You will be surprised how much love you will have for the baby you are going to give life to. Another thing is if you really have noone to help you with it. It can be pretty hard to go through pregnancy and birth without any support., but I promise you you will be rewarded and happy. In any case, don't be silly Honey, don't even think about killing yourself or hurting the baby. Either have a baby and if you really can't keep him/her, give the baby to a family that desperately wants to have one (and there are lots of them, trust me) or leave him at the hospital and they will take care of him. Talk to your doctor, friend, if you can't talk to your parents. Extreme way out is an abortion, which is better than killing yourself, but thiink twice before you make this decision. Many women regret it later. It's your life and it's your choice. Stay strong and everything will be fine! We all have bad days and even months or years, but it all goes away. You will be happy again!!! Good luck!

Answered: Tue, 9 Mar 2010
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Very few people in this world are living the life they thought they would. I have made more mistakes in my life than I thought possible but somehow, everything always turns out OK. As it will in your situation. You're pregnant, you knew this was a possibility when you were having sex. It's time to step up to the plate and do this the right way. You have another person to think about now. You have the opportunity to turn your life around and to make a differance in the life of a child. I know you will do the right thing, and I know things will turn out well for you. You just need to stay positive, and look forward to the tiny miracle that has entered your life. Don't regret your child...and dont regret your life...big things are about to happen to you and your life is about to take a whole new direction...its going to be wonderful! Congratulations!
Answered: Tue, 22 Dec 2009
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