Please help? I am afraid of my period! Is it on its way? Ok I am 12 years old. ( girl ). And my bra size is 32A, 5 foot 2ish, maybe 3, and I weigh about 90lbs. I have noticed sticky white discharge in my underwear not too long ago. I have had hair down there before though. I have been having cramps in my stomach, so they might be a sign. I am really afraid though! I don t want to be caught off guard, or like at school. I ve tried tampons (dont no what size) but I couldn t get it in and I don t think I d like a spongey pad. Also, my mom and dad never talked about this with me. So if I do have my period, I won t know who to tell or what to say. I m scared! Is my period coming? Is it really that bad? How do you know when it happens again after you ve had your first? Please I have more questions so just please give me your opinion and just list some tips and anything that you think would help me. Please. Thanks so much I am really afraid, and I don t feel like I m ready to be a woman yet, I ll miss being a kid! Help! Please, and thank you! P.S. Today I had cramps down there and my back hurt... I don t know if that has anything to do with this though. And about how long after you get hair down there does your period start ? How long after you get cramps ? And one more, How long after you get discharge? Thanks so much, love you guys~!