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Husband Loses Erection Very Soon, Tried Foreplay, No Help. Trying For Baby. Need Guidance ?
i have been married for two years but never had sex with my husband as he keeps travelling and i had my own inhibitions.but now since we are planning for a baby, we tried having sex 5-6 times. but every time, my husband who is 35 years old will have little erection in the beginning but not sufficient enough to penetrate.then very soon, he loses his erection suddenly.i do lot of foreplay with him but he just cant get sufficient erection. this has happened 5-6 times. i have been very nice to him and assured him that it is not a major problem. but i am myself disturbed as i badly want a child but every time we try, he has very less erection. i think he is too young for medicines like Viagra etc. He doesnt have any physical problem or health issues. please guide as i am very disturbed
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Thanks for your query.
Based on your description.It is sure that your husband has a problem of what is called as Erectile Dysfunction.Since erection is a complex process involving Psychology,nervous and cardiovascular system There are multiple reasons for dysfunction The commonest are
1) Diabetes
2) Cardiovasclar prblems
3)Smoking
3) Side effects of some medicines.
4)Psychological stress.
Please get his blood sugar level done to rule out Diabetes.If he is smoker ask him to stop smoking Have a diet rich in protein,Fruits and vegetable.Take some moderate exercises .All these measures will boost up his physique and confidence.He is 35 years old There is no age bar for taking Sildenafil(Viagra) so he can take Viagra 100 mg 1/2 hr before intercourse.If his problem still persists after trail of Viagra for few days consult some Urologist or Qualified sexologist for proper evaluation and further treatment.
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Husband Loses Erection Very Soon, Tried Foreplay, No Help. Trying For Baby. Need Guidance ?
Hello Thanks for your query. Based on your description.It is sure that your husband has a problem of what is called as Erectile Dysfunction.Since erection is a complex process involving Psychology,nervous and cardiovascular system There are multiple reasons for dysfunction The commonest are 1) Diabetes 2) Cardiovasclar prblems 3)Smoking 3) Side effects of some medicines. 4)Psychological stress. Please get his blood sugar level done to rule out Diabetes.If he is smoker ask him to stop smoking Have a diet rich in protein,Fruits and vegetable.Take some moderate exercises .All these measures will boost up his physique and confidence.He is 35 years old There is no age bar for taking Sildenafil(Viagra) so he can take Viagra 100 mg 1/2 hr before intercourse.If his problem still persists after trail of Viagra for few days consult some Urologist or Qualified sexologist for proper evaluation and further treatment.