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How To Restore Sexual Compatibility In A Relationship?

My girlfriend and I have since the start of our 2 year relationship been experiences problems that appears to be sexual inadequacy. We just don't seem to have the chemistry to excite each other. We both led a normal sexual life before but with each other it is always a struggle. I am 34 and she is 27 and we are both worried that this continuous problem will ruin our relationship. We do not know what to do and are extremely frustrated.

I am in love with her but i just don't seem to know what to do and i dont want to loose her.

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Tue, 14 Oct 2014
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Sexual problems are normally due to mental causes rather than physical causes. You are talking about your girl friend, not about your wife. Sexual relationship with girl friend is always a cause of guilt. Such guilt could produce anxiety which in turn can be a cause of sexual problems. Also you have not mentioned the type of sexual problem you are facing. Please consult a sexologist / psychologist to know more.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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How To Restore Sexual Compatibility In A Relationship?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Sexual problems are normally due to mental causes rather than physical causes. You are talking about your girl friend, not about your wife. Sexual relationship with girl friend is always a cause of guilt. Such guilt could produce anxiety which in turn can be a cause of sexual problems. Also you have not mentioned the type of sexual problem you are facing. Please consult a sexologist / psychologist to know more. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.