Hello, Thanks for using Healthcaremagic. From the available description it appears that your huband sufferes with premature ejaculation which is treatable condition. There are two methods of treatment for premature ejaculation which includes behavioral methods and the medications. The behavioral techniques need to be practiced during sex and yield results over a time. The techniques are difficult to explain here but you can just google kegel method to understand it to explain the method to your husband. The other techniques are 1. Squeeze technique- In this technique even you can help him. 2. Start- stop method 3. Interruption technique He can choose any of them if they suit him. Premature ejaculation can be controlled by medications. SSRI antidepressant drugs cause delayed ejaculation as a side effect, and this side effect is used therapeutically in the treatment of premature ejaculation. For best results combination of behavior techniques and medications are more useful than either of them. I hope this helps you. Thanks again