Hi there Ramya.
I understand what you are going through & empathise with you.
These things can sometimes best be sorted out with a visit to a clinical
psychologist or a doctor you can confide in & who lends you an empathetic ear.
From your description of events, it does not appear that there is any
hormonal or other issue. The issue seems more one of compatiability.
I would suggest you first get your husband's
Semen Analysis done at a laboratory near you. It has to be done within 30 minutes of ejaculation or collection for best results so chose a lab close to you or get him to collect it in the centre itself.
Then, do a T3/T4/
TSH thyroid test for both of you to see if there are any issues & FBS/PPBS test to rule out any diabtes in either/both of you.
Then, since Coimbatore is close to Bangalore, please consider coming across with all these reports for a consultation outside your immediate environment. This may help you both & while it is always best both partners' consult together, in your case, you may come with all the documents & we can first rule out any issues & then counsel you accordingly. You may alternatively feel free to trace me down & call me on my cell.
Don't worry...it can easily be sorted out if one has an open mind. There must be some baggage holding up proceedings & once this is talked over, I doubt that you will need the help of
Viagra et al.
Good Luck & Hope it works out well for you in your sex life.
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD