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hi doctor how are you i m so crazy about sex i m 24 year old but i never done sex before in my life some time only masturbuttion yesterdy i go to bar and there i want to go to fuck a girl i was so so afraid due to police when i go inside girl just tell m do it do it as soon as possible and nver even giv me kiss at tht time my penis was not get erection even and she take it hand and masterbte it bt it was nt get eretion and after some time my sperm comes is this problem in penis or something else rep me?
Hi, Welcome to HCM. I understand your concern. Sexual urges at this age is natural because of abundance of sex hormones. But at the same time you must exercise control over the impulse. Visiting prostitute or having sex with strangers is a high risk behavior. Masturbation is far safer.
Sex can be enjoyed in relaxed mind. If mind is preoccupied with some fear/worries (fear of being spotted or caught by police in your case) it causes sympathetic stimulation that may cause poor/no erection and premature ejaculation.
Exactly this has happened with you. There is nothing seriously wrong and your performance will be normal in suitable condition. Relax yourself. I wish you all the best.
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Hi, Welcome to HCM. I understand your concern. Sexual urges at this age is natural because of abundance of sex hormones. But at the same time you must exercise control over the impulse. Visiting prostitute or having sex with strangers is a high risk behavior. Masturbation is far safer. Sex can be enjoyed in relaxed mind. If mind is preoccupied with some fear/worries (fear of being spotted or caught by police in your case) it causes sympathetic stimulation that may cause poor/no erection and premature ejaculation. Exactly this has happened with you. There is nothing seriously wrong and your performance will be normal in suitable condition. Relax yourself. I wish you all the best.