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How To Deal With Stubborn Teenager?

I have 13 years daughter studying 8th class. I do observe from her childhood always crying. She always denies for any thing we ask. She is particular about works/requirements.She presurises for her needs to get them done. But she does not do which we ask to do. She resists a lot.
Wed, 28 May 2014
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Hi, I had gone through your query and understood your concerns.

Sir/Madam,
Teenagers are like that. That particular age is like that-- mysterious , uncontrollable to both elders and they them selves also. You said she was always crying in childhood. Probably she has some problem like loneliness or that sort. Such people become more arrogant in teenage.
In teenage, children wants to be free, independent, they believe they know everything. What elders need to do is try to be as friendly as possible. Talk a lot, share a lot. when they believe, they share a lot regarding friends. Let them talk a lot. then they listen to you. Don't try to win the situation with them. First let them win, then if you say slowly they listen.

Hope this guides you. For any other queries you can write to us.
All the best.
Dr Phanindra Dulipala.
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How To Deal With Stubborn Teenager?

Hi, I had gone through your query and understood your concerns. Sir/Madam, Teenagers are like that. That particular age is like that-- mysterious , uncontrollable to both elders and they them selves also. You said she was always crying in childhood. Probably she has some problem like loneliness or that sort. Such people become more arrogant in teenage. In teenage, children wants to be free, independent, they believe they know everything. What elders need to do is try to be as friendly as possible. Talk a lot, share a lot. when they believe, they share a lot regarding friends. Let them talk a lot. then they listen to you. Don t try to win the situation with them. First let them win, then if you say slowly they listen. Hope this guides you. For any other queries you can write to us. All the best. Dr Phanindra Dulipala.