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How Can Severe Depression And Inferiority Complex Be Treated?
Now a days i m feeling that i m useless..my life is aimless.i dont know anything how to speak how to read how to be social with anyone . Nobody likes me ..my husband always blame me that you r wrong...whatever happen in family .always he said without listening anythink i m culprit ...i m feeling like a dog ...which has no respect ...
Thu, 19 Jan 2017
Hi,
Brief Answer:
Consult psychiatrist and don't let others give rating to your life. Life is not online profile and it cant be rated by others. Everyone is special.
Detailed answer:
I will answer your question word to word here in points.
1. Feeling useless- No one is useless or useful. How you will decide a person useless or useful. If you say doctor is useful person. He isn't valuable person if there are no patients. If you say successful person is useful. He is not valuable if there are no failure people. So this world needs all people. There are no useless people.
2. Aimless - if you think deeply nobody in this world has meaningful aim. Whatever aim you achieve you cant live in this world forever. So it depends everyone can pic an aim. But ultimately important thing in life is not achieving aims. Its about achieving satisfaction.
3. Social - Speak, read when you realise your value doesn't depend on others opinion. Your confidence boosts and you will mingle with people easily. Having said that it may not be easy for you. But being social is choice. There are great persons who are introverts who gave unique music and unique books and many more. Don't say you don't know how to read.
4. Nobody likes you. Everyone starts liking you after you starts liking yourself. Trust me, having said that it doesn't matter whether someone like you or not. Stop caring others opinions start improving yourself. Other things follow you automatically.
5. About husband, I don't know about problems in your family, but sit with your family and discuss what they are expecting from you to get things right. If they are meaningful correct yourselves give them what they want. Solve problems one by one. If their demands are not appropriate and you cant help them. Leave them aside. You cant help things which cant be solved. Having said all these consult psychiatrist and take counselling and medications if needed, he can counsel you well as he will have direct access and he can explain well as you can ask more doubts face to face.
Hope its helpful. I will be happy to help if you have further queries.
Regards,
Dr. Sagar
Brief Answer:
Consult psychiatrist and don't let others give rating to your life. Life is not online profile and it cant be rated by others. Everyone is special.
Detailed answer:
I will answer your question word to word here in points.
1. Feeling useless- No one is useless or useful. How you will decide a person useless or useful. If you say doctor is useful person. He isn't valuable person if there are no patients. If you say successful person is useful. He is not valuable if there are no failure people. So this world needs all people. There are no useless people.
2. Aimless - if you think deeply nobody in this world has meaningful aim. Whatever aim you achieve you cant live in this world forever. So it depends everyone can pic an aim. But ultimately important thing in life is not achieving aims. Its about achieving satisfaction.
3. Social - Speak, read when you realise your value doesn't depend on others opinion. Your confidence boosts and you will mingle with people easily. Having said that it may not be easy for you. But being social is choice. There are great persons who are introverts who gave unique music and unique books and many more. Don't say you don't know how to read.
4. Nobody likes you. Everyone starts liking you after you starts liking yourself. Trust me, having said that it doesn't matter whether someone like you or not. Stop caring others opinions start improving yourself. Other things follow you automatically.
5. About husband, I don't know about problems in your family, but sit with your family and discuss what they are expecting from you to get things right. If they are meaningful correct yourselves give them what they want. Solve problems one by one. If their demands are not appropriate and you cant help them. Leave them aside. You cant help things which cant be solved. Having said all these consult psychiatrist and take counselling and medications if needed, he can counsel you well as he will have direct access and he can explain well as you can ask more doubts face to face.
Hope its helpful. I will be happy to help if you have further queries.
Regards,
Dr. Sagar
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