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How can I prove my pregnancy ?

please dont show my name. im looking for some assurance & hopefully posting this is legal according to what i could understand of the website rules. i need to find some way to prove to my former fiance that years ago he did get me pregnant . his claim is we just had sex 2 times, once anal & oral no condom & once vaginal with a condom. but, we never used a condom. i dont know the number of times we had sex, we did do lots of touching, rubbing & sex of oral, anal, & vaginal types over several months. passions got away from us. i had a bad private practice doctor so i dont have ultrasounds to prove anything. i delivered twins after just 18 weeks. but theres no birth or death certificates cause the doctor said they lived less than a minute & didnt require those things. all i have are cremated ashes which the doctor decided without asking me. i have no records of being pregnant the doctor disappeared. my fiance was my first & only guy to be with. i had cravings, my body changed some, for months after giving birth i cried uncontrollably. the doctor didnt have me do lamaze breathing, instead it was deep breaths holding to 10 then again over and over. i delivered early cause his staff dropped me & later this mucusy stuff came down my legs, so they had to do what they could, i saw my twins, i felt them move on my chest after giving birth, they were small & underdeveloped. anything my fiance & i did could have made me pregnant right? everything has a percentage leading to pregnancy . even condoms arent 100% doctor said they are porous & have a 15% failure rate but that doesnt matter cause they were never used & my doctor said that some anal sex cases can cause this by some sperm slipping into the vagina because its so close to the anus & fertilize an egg & even preejaculation. my doctor told me it had to be our first time that got me preg. because of how far along i was. how do i prove all this to my former fiance? he has to know i never lied to him.
Asked On : Fri, 1 Apr 2011
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as per your statement it is quite natural that your sexual activity with your fiance made you pregnant

a clinical examination by a gynecologist doing an p/v examination may tell you that you had pregnancy eralier by the change in cervix after delivery though it may be less marked after premature delivery when the foetus is very small

there is nothing that you can prove that your fiance caused the pregnancy

chang of mind of your fiance may be the only hope that he will admit to it

you should come out of it and make yourself strong in mind and body to start life fresh with better partner
if you have the ashes you can talk to laboratory where d n a tests are done and find out if it could be done with the ashes and then every thing will be peroved

Answered: Mon, 11 Jul 2011
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