Hi! So me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time 4 weeks ago, we used a condom, but I've been off birth control since August. The next day I knew something was up, I thought maybe it was a UTI or a yeast infection because it was itchy and painful and I ha unusual discharge (white and thick). I went to the doctor and they told me I was fine. I got my period two days later, for 5 days. Which is odd, I only get spotting for a few days but I barely get my period when off birth control. The day I got my period I was nauseous and had really bad cramps, but it continued for three weeks, along with the white discharge. After two weeks I decided to take a pregnancy test. I took two (one 13 days after having sex and one 14 days after). They both came up negative so I figured I was just stressed out. But 2 and a half weeks after my period ended I got it again (very abnormal for me) and it's really heavy and fleshy and clotted. Today there seemed to be a small kidney shaped black and white object? I haven't stopped having cramps since my first period and it's been about four weeks, am I pregnant? Was I pregnant? Std? Or am I just crazy and over reacting. Help!