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Head ache, fatigue
, joint and muscle pain
are symptoms of any viral fever
like 'flu'. Dengue
, Chikunkuniya fever also have similar picture. HIV is not the single condition to produce such symptoms.
HIV transmission through deep kissing is very rare. As you had no genital contact the chances of HIV is very remote. So you need not worry. Consult your physician and they will guide and cure you.
Get well soon.