So this is the most embarrassing thing ive ever went through in my life. A while ago, i got drunk with these two girls, brought them to bed, made them wet by fingering them, but when it came time for intercourse, i went totally soft. I just finished them off and we hung out and they went to sleep. They were totally cool with it, but i was devastated. I couldn t fall asleep the whole night (BTW i was a virgin and still am) Now im talking to this awesome chick, and we have been having phone sex lately. THE SAD PART is that i lose my erection after 10 minutes or so. I can get it back up, but it will always go back down. I HAVE TO FAKE MY OWN GODDAM ORGASM ON THE PHONE! that is what the chicks usually do lol. I find it pathetic and funny that im going though this. BTW im 18 and this shouldn t be happening at all. I NEED HELP! ive tried lube during it, toys,ect. I relaxed myself and it kind of worked, but when things get hot it just goes into hibernation . I need something i can practice or should i just stop jerking off for like a week? Im begging for someone s help. Any advice would be appreciated.