thank you for your query.
I think you should urgently consult your doctor.
What you are having sounds very much like laryngeal edema
and probably swelling and cellulitis
in the neck region.
You could be having an infection such as tuberculosis
, or bacterial infection, that is causing enlargement of the lymph nodes and abscess in the neck and retropharyngeal region.
It is definitely not normal.
If the edema in the respiratory tract
and tongue and mouth increases, you would face difficulty in breathing which could be fatal.
Please dont waste time, and get to the ER to have a check up and treatment.