I have discovered a small lump just underneath my right ear, about the size of a pea, I thought it may be a swollen gland but im not ill and have nothing on the other side, im also tired all the time. im a 42 year old female, at the moment I am waiting to go to the colposcopy clinic for treatment which im assured is no big deal. I found this lump 3 days ago but don't want to seem like im paranoid and waste my doctors time