first of all dont be afraid and tensed up, whats being done cannot be solved up by regretting now .
dont be panic okay, i will guide you now,
u had a intercourse with condom right? so that reduces the chances of any sexually transmitted disease
by 90% , now if the condome is good quality one and didnt tear up , then you are on safe side and almost you are safe upto 99 percent . secondly HIV
infection transmission is very very minimal with kissing (becoz you have done oral sex
and kissing), unless otherwise you have oral ulcers or bleeding gums
by considering all these points i think you are on safe side ..but to know whether you are positive or negative you have to wait for 3-5 months to do testing for HIV by antibody detection method. i.e by strip method , that are avaialable in outside market , if you want instant result try with PCR test...but it is expensive one.
final point is that before thinking about it all.....that women should be HIV positive..then only all these things should be considered... i want to ask you one thing ..is she a sex worker or Normal girl who came to enjoy the party like u? if its the case like normal girl who came for party then ..FORGET ABOUT WHOLE THING..OK
TAKE CARE BYE