or WITHDRAWAL METHOD" is the term both of you have practiced.In it pregnancy rate
is nearly 25 per 100 woman years.Main cause not due to ejaculation inside the vagina but the prostatic fluid secreted prior to ejaculation,frequently contains active spermatozoa
So failure chance is great.
Your cycle is normal and you are on 41st day after your previous period ie 17th day of missed period.
You need to do a urine test for hcg immediately along with a blood test
If both are negative,then do a usg for confirmation.
And if your pregnancy test is positve then do a usg for confirmation of uterine pregnancy and duration.
If you want abortion,then protocol as follows
Day1:600 mg(3 tabs) of Mifepristone(RU-486) given as single dose and woman is observed for half and hour and then allowed home.
Day3:400 microgram oral Misoprostol
is administered(2tabs) unless abortion is occurred.
Day14:Follow up to confirm abortion has occurred.
If not surgical MTP is done.
Bleeding usually starts wiyhin few hrs of taking RU-486 and abortion is done in a week.
**Single effect of Mifepristone for abortion nearly 83% and addinng Misoprostol with it nearly 95% in less than 48 hrs.
All you need to do under supervision of gynaecologist.
All the best.