First of all good bowel habbits should be maintained as constipated stool can aggravate the condition, so glycerine suppository should be used in difficult voiding, anovate or proctosedyl
or shield ointment should be applied before ane after defecation. seitz bath with chlorhexidine
should be taken for 30 minute each day.
even after applying these remedies for few weeks your symptoms pesist then you should consult a surgeon fo its proper examination and management.
wish you all the best.