Please help me! 4 years after a bilateral oopherectomy with complete hysterectomy due to breast cancer, I cannot stand the drastic changes anymore! I use to be a vibrant, motivated woman. Now, I feel numb in emotions, I get by simply by "acting" like I use to act. I feel no elevated feelings of happiness or sadness. I have no energy at all. My herniated discs are so much worse now. I also gained 40 lbs. and look horrible! I do exercise and trg my best, it just dirsnt help much. I use to always have a great sex life, now I don't care if u ever have another man in my life! I know this is all from the surgery! I was happy and motivated even during chemo...went to the gym everyday and made the best of it. I am angry that my dr. Didn't warn me! I would have rather died from cancer early than live forever in this empty shell! Can I take phytoestrogens etc.? I don't care if I die earlier from estrogen enhancement because I don't really want to live feeling this way. I need to feel emotion again! Any helpful advice?