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Gaining Erection And Ejaculation Very Difficult. Why Do I Need Stimulation?

sir i am 38 years old I married at the age of 35, I have a problems that often before going to have sex, I need to see erotic video scene for gaining erection and then I remain erected for long time, and for ejaculation I also need hand to stimulate my penis and just 5 second before I enter in vagina and ejaculate therein ! please suggest or guide me how to overcome it !
Fri, 18 Oct 2013
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Hi,
Thanks for writing in to us.

There could be many causes of the same like a performance anxiety, fear of failure, partner demands, discord in the relationship, fear of emotional intimacy, restricted foreplay, depression or anxiety etc. If there is a specific cause then it needs to be addressed.

You must discuss any problems with your partner and try to increase time spent on foreplay by involving your partner for a longer while.

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Gaining Erection And Ejaculation Very Difficult. Why Do I Need Stimulation?

Hi, Thanks for writing in to us. There could be many causes of the same like a performance anxiety, fear of failure, partner demands, discord in the relationship, fear of emotional intimacy, restricted foreplay, depression or anxiety etc. If there is a specific cause then it needs to be addressed. You must discuss any problems with your partner and try to increase time spent on foreplay by involving your partner for a longer while. Hope this helps