Sorry to hear that, lets see how I can help u come back to normal.
*your pre-breakfast level of sugar is high it should be in around 90
Lets see what might be going on,
i) the feeling of low energy is knows as "Fatigue"
ii) low sex drive.
causes : 1) anemia , (Low iron in blood gives feeling of fatigue)
: 2) hypo-thyrodism (low thyroid
hormone level- thyroid hormone is important for metabolism
and . energy and mood )
: 3) low testosterone level
( testosterone is male sex hormone- for sex drive
: 4) diabetes
(high sugar content in blood- it tends also be a significant cause of problems you are . having)
: 5) lot of stress is also know culprit for fatigue and low sex drive.
: 6) Psychological fear of performance can reduce the sex drive and erection may not be achieved.
Advice: see your physician and let him know what is going on.
Here is mostly what they will do in order to reach the diagnosis (just an heads off)
a) do run some blood test
which measure the hemoglobin
, testosterone level, thyroid level
b) They will check the blood glucose level in HbA1C- Which is average for 3 months level and its in single digit . score from " 1-9" less then 7 is normal
c) For stress you need to have some relaxation technique like meditation
d) in case of diabetes they will prescribe you medication to control it and will make the sex problems go away . gradually
e) in case of low testosterone he/she will give an gel for increasing the hormone
f) for low thyroid he/she will prescribe you an tablet
So nothing is to worry about , the problem only lies that you have the break open the conversation. If not u can just print out the conversation and hand it to him and your physician will help you.
Don't worry its very common and nothing to shamed about, please get your self checked and help your self and your marriage.
If You need me to talk to your doctor give me his email address i can email the condition and yes many families are going through similar problem please help yourself.
Thanks for being brave to share it
Dr. JAY PATEL