hi... stop worrying first. from your symptoms its quite clear u dont have any major eyes problem. your eyes get dry n irritable because of the soap/shampoo that u use or the steam of soup. i will advice u use any artificial tears
...like refresh tears eye drops/ eye mist eye drop... 4-6 times in day..it will reduce/stop the heavinessu feel. see to it u completely wash out the soap from your face after bath. as for the tingling sensation
...see if it re-occures...if it does do consult a physician.