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Due to continuous stress
and tension one becomes chronically stressed, and the discord in relations is one of very important stressing factor. Due to this individual may develop Adjustment Disorder
and with associated depressive or anxiety
features. You are having the clinical features of adjustment disorder.
Best thing can be done is-
Talk to your partner assertively and explain her situation, give at least one try, if resolution occurs then you will improve.
Second think of other options, visit a good counselor along with partner and engage in counseling sessions.
You can visit a good psychiatrist
for episodic control of anxiety.