Hi welcome to Health care magic forum. from the description it appears to be genetic origin, of course it is very difficult, you can try to get rid of it . it could be due to hypo thyroid
also , if it is so it is easy to get the solution.
First and fore most is try to reduce the sleeping hours, 4to 6 hours a day. dont sleep in the day time .
There are some yoga
steps related to regional fat destribution, specific to specific places. Avoid fatty foods completely, avoid meet, seafish, redmeet, fry foods etc.
There are some bariatric operations to minimise fat assimilation. and that will be the last step to try. Thanks for calling.