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Early ejaculation, especially in missionary position, partner does not get orgasm, erectile dysfunction, worried about difficulty in not satisfying partner. Tips for better sex?

I am from south Tamil Nadu not near by Chennai even, married and having 2 kids. We are leading a successful married life so for with out any problem. We are having a very good understanding.. I am more interested in sex than her. I am noticed a prob. with me recently that i could not long lang last even 2 min while having sex with my wife. I used to have a foreplay for 10 min we enjoy in that moment... when i started pumping slowly i can t even with stand more than a min..Ejaculation is very earlier when i am pumping hard / my wife is pumping hard. less than even a min sometime during my first shot..When i am on her top ejaculation is much faster..during missionerry position i hv to rest my whole body weight in my hands and pumping veyr hard in to her which my wife loves a lot...i cant even with stand a min. which i am very much sad abt. this... Some times my wife have shared with me that she has not got her orgasm .....My wife is everything to me i want to satisfy her the most...I want to have better sex with her... Pl. help me to get rid out of these as I am very much worried abt. this... My wife is not too much worried abt. this..but i want to satisfy to the most...means she have not got the female ejaculation yet. We both are having very good relationship and good sex life too. i need to have erect penis which can with stand up to 5 min atleast..My age is 39 and my wife is 35. My penis size at erection is 4-5 inches max ... Hv heard that pils( viagra ) can solve this prob.which gives more strength and stamina for longer sex...whether this is correct or any other natural method or theraphy i should follow to have longer erect penis.. i want your advice to have a better sex with my partner... Pl. guide /advice..
Asked On : Thu, 14 Jun 2012
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Hello
The problem of pre mature ejaculation is very common. Do you smoke or take alcohol? If yes, please stop immediately. tobacco can cause premature loss of hardness . secondly I feel you are getting very much tensed up . this is a normal occurance in a long relationship. I suggest you should try to relax and initiate intercourse with the objective of getting and giving pleasure, not for performing the task of inserting erect penis and satisfaction of either of you. Just concentrate on the pleasure derived from touching, kissing and fondling every part of body except genitals. I suggest you put a ban on inserting penis and feel no need to rush to intercourse.When you will be comfortable, we will proceed further
Mean time, a light workout like jogging in morning, yogasnas like titli asna, vajra asna, are helpful. Kigel's exercises are quite effective

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Answered: Fri, 15 Jun 2012
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