Thanks for your query.
I have read your query & I understand your concerns.
From what you describe it appears to be erectile dysfunction
secondary to stress
of new job and adjustments to new surroundings.
I advice you to reduce your stress levels and make life style changes with which you were comfortable earlier.
If still your problem persists, I syggest you see a psychiatrist
who will help you to reduce your anxiety
and stress levels.
All the best.
I hope I answered your query. I will be available for any followup queries you have.
IVF & Infertility