Since your diet and lifestyle modifications have failed to achieve the desired results,it would be prudent to start proper medicine treatment to avoid unnecessary complications.
Without examining you ,it is not possible for any doctor to design the treatment plan for you and that too online.
More realistic approach for you would be to consult a diabetologist
,get properly examined and investigated further for example eye examination and cardiac assessment ,and then take the treatment.
It is believed that co existing dyslipidemia
significantly contributes to higher prevalence of macro vascular disease
and thus needs to be aggressively managed along with hyperglycemia
I would restrict myself for the goals to be achieved by you..
Keep your HBA1c to below 7
Keep your blood pressure below 120/80 mm og Hg.
LDL should be below 80
Triglycerides to be below 150.
Must carry on with dietary restrictions and other lifestyle modifications ,even after start of medications.