Hi welcome to Healthcare Magic
Your all signs and symptoms are all due to anxiety
.As you are now 40 plus,these all are menopausal symptoms.Try to do Pranayam and Yoga
daily to relax your mind. Pranayam help to normalise your harmones.It also help you to reduce kgs.
I advice you to take Ayurvedic medicines support like Aloes compound and Leptadine tab.Aloes for first 15 days and then leptadine next 15 days two tablet twice daily.Also do one body purification program Called PANCHAKARM.
Hope you fallow all these instructions so you will get help to overcome from all these things.
Dr Shilpa Benade