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Commitment Issues, Good Story Teller, Plays Mind Games, Behaves Differently With Different Groups. Narcissistic?
Well this guy I was seeing I think was genuine in always been seen to be doing things for others, . But behaved differently with different groups of friends. When it came to women he would every time make a point of talking about women friends and make odd comments to make me wonder if he was up to something. He had commitment issues, Loves to tell stories, plays mind games with me that ususally made me feel that I was not worth much to him and insecure. Told me he does not see why he has to grow up. No boudaries with relationships. Would this make him a narsistic person or just immature
Fri, 10 May 2013
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From the description you have mentioned it appears that there is significant problem in your relationship. Some times in relationship one partner may start believing on assumptions. You think that he behave differently in group of friends or make odd comments. If this is the problem then I would advise you to please talk to him clearly and try to sort out the problem. You can take help of a relationship counselor.
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Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi, MD
Welcome to HCM
From the description you have mentioned it appears that there is significant problem in your relationship. Some times in relationship one partner may start believing on assumptions. You think that he behave differently in group of friends or make odd comments. If this is the problem then I would advise you to please talk to him clearly and try to sort out the problem. You can take help of a relationship counselor.
Thanks
Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi, MD
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Welcome to HCM
I understand your concern.
The description you gave corresponds to a obsessive personality rather than narcissist.
He is not immature, for sure.
With others he is normal.
He is playing games with you may be because he is obsessed
Relationship counselor can help you both.
Before that ask yourself, whether, you understood him well.
Wish you happy future.
Welcome to HCM
I understand your concern.
The description you gave corresponds to a obsessive personality rather than narcissist.
He is not immature, for sure.
With others he is normal.
He is playing games with you may be because he is obsessed
Relationship counselor can help you both.
Before that ask yourself, whether, you understood him well.
Wish you happy future.
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