Hi. I have a medium-sized lump just past my vagina, in-between it and my anus on the right side. It hurts when i touch it, when i sit, when i walk.. basically all the time. it is red and hard under the skin. I am only 13 and i am a virgin, so it can't be Herpes or anything, can it? I haven't talked to anybody about it because I have been too embarrassed, which includes my doctor, parents etc. Please help, I am scared and in pain. Thank You