Hi Hari, Welcome to health care magic. I am Dr Alok Sinha, MD Psychiatry from India. I can understand your concern. I will try my best to answer your query. I have carefully read your question and could understand that you are having premature ejaculation and you want to delay your ejaculation to increase your sex time. Due to premature ejaculation often the woman remain unsatisfied and man feels himself guilty. You don t have to worry much as there are few good medicines that can delay the ejaculation. I suggest you to consult a psychiatrist nearby who may prescribe you a SSRI group of medicine like Paroxetine or Dapoxetine for cure. I am sure you both may be able to enjoy a happy conjugal life once again. I hope it answers your question. I wish you both all the best.