I was nursing a 4 month old when i got pregnant with my third baby. i was scared and upset and feeling depressed. i ended up keeping the pregnancy because of the side affects and possible damage from abortions, and now these kids are best friends. it's hard at first, but they'll only be babies for so long. they fight occasionally, but they're also each others biggest defense. it ended up actually making less work for me because they play together all the time. make sure you're fully informed before you make a decision...that's a baby you won't be able to see smile or roll over and you can't reverse that decision.