If these symptoms are caused from bulky uterus( that compresses the ureters) you should consult with a gyn. and nephrolog to see for what reason the uterus is bulky or is another cause for these symptoms ,and to find a choose .
You should treat the cause because you have high BP
,body swelling,chronic UTI and these are very serious symptoms for your age and can go to irreversible symptoms .
These symptoms can be treated with the right medication(antihypertensives,antidiuretics,antiinfectious) but is not the right thing.
Take care of your self