Thanks for the query.
The bleeding you had could be withdrawal bleeding due to stopping the contraceptive
After stopping the pills it will take sometime for regularization of periods.
During intercourse usually the amount of white discharge increases that may be reason for your jelly like discharge.
Sometimes abdominal cramps, pain in vagina can be seen after intercourse.
So this time you track your ovulation and plan intercourse around that time which will increase the possibility of conception.