Greetings from Healthcaremagic.What is happening "_ _ _ everytime i have bled the first time we have sex,_ _ _"
is there is a subconscious powerful contraction of the pubococcygeus muscles that clamp shut the vaginal entrance. Forceful sex during vaginismus
often leads to bleeding.The good news is it is not serious, in the sense you fear. You will have to learn Kegel's exercise as long as you are able to voluntarily relax your pelvic floor
muscles. This learning will be useful during those instances when you found this happens. Have fun,Get back to us should you have additional queries.Dr. Ashok Koparday