Thanks for choosing health care magic for posting your query.
From the description that you have given it appears your son is having some serious behavioural disturbances. With the available information, it would not be good to comment on whether he has a bipolar mood disorder
or not. What he needs is a proper consultation from a psychiatrist
who can identify what his problem is and then can plan out a proper therapy for him. if he denies to come you can talk to him that his behaiour is causing trouble to everyone around him and request him. Or else you can contact the child care services to help you out.
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