Am I gay, or will I eventualy grow out of it? Hi, I am a 21 year old female. When I was younger, I used to always wonder why I would get so nervous around girls. Especially if I thought they were attractive. I had no idea in my mind that I could possibly be gay because I was a kid. Now that I am older and I have experienced with both. I find that I am no longer attracted to guys, and only girls. Well, I do find some guys attractive but there is VERY rare. I have never gotten feelings for guys, just girls. I have never been happier to come out, but a little part of me feels like something is not right. I don't know maybe it's because I don't want to be the way I am, but I have accepted myself because I can't change this. So basically what I am asking is...even though I am attracted to girls, but I still find some guys attractive (on rare occasions) am I gay? Or is it just a phase?
Asked On : Thu, 8 Apr 2010