one father asked this question
can i teach my son to masturbate ?
i have that response it may help you
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is is an important physical and psychological activity. most of us get to know about this through friends, films and some times in school during sex education.
physical part can be shown to the kid by giving him very decent porn videos to see i am saying very decent because small activity by parents is very meaningful.
we may choose to see the video with the kids but as society we are not evolved enough to that. our reaction will be awkward because sex inhibition starts right from the day we are born. there are 100s of people around the kid to tell him in more than one way how wrong it is to talk, touch or think about sex.
we need to experiment with kids first talking to him as friends who is learning about everything including sex.
most important thing about masturbation is letting him know its a physiological activity like any other, eating, drinking, sneezing
, etc. and soon we all need to come to an attitude of "making it a more of physiological and less of mental activity". even asking of this question is coming from the subconscious hitch.
the action of dad teaching his son by doing it , is really a bold and very appropriate , and very rightly said not horrifying once the child is in the right age.
dont forget to share the psychological part of sex and masturbation with your little one, that it is a pressure release at times and when associated with your beloved it gives great mental happiness to both partners.
some times when your partner doesnt feel have sex sharing masturbation with her, i.e. doing masturbation in her presence is even more peaceful and joyous act. if you r not able to do it . talk it out with her.
i am bringing this issue here because many women or men are forced to into sex when mentally not comfortable. thus carrying the anger or guilt post forced activity. god has given a system of using body energy game
1.enjoy alone or
2.play together with your beloved and enjoy or
3.create a baby + enjoy, or
4.use this energy into creativity of higher order - "ojas" psychological awareness is build when we learn to enjoy postponing masturbation as much as we enjoy doing it. no judging it wrong or right. this needs very mature and intelligent mind and body . potential of this we all have. i say potential only yet.
haven you seen when you are engaged in some deeply interesting activity masturbation is forgotten . this is not judging but transcendence of masturbation. growth of going beyond in control of body to complete in control of your creative and intelligent mind.
so experiment, talk and listen to your friend called son everything including masturbation and life.