thanks for your query.
I definitely think you are perimenopausal.
All the symptoms you describe fit in with that.
having a baby at this age is not only fraught with inherent risks, but also increased chances of miscarriage
, and difficulty in conceiving.
Firstly I would advise you to meet up with a gynecologist, and have estimation of the hormones - FSH, LH, estradiol
It will confirm whether you are perimenopausal or nearing actual menopause
Then you can have estimation of your ovarian reserve
to know chances of conception.