Hi there wim.
I note your detailed & descriptive history & clinical features.
I do feel you are on the right track & narrowed it down to either HPV
virus (warts) or Herpes Simplex
virus (given that the partner in concern has herpes labialis). Assuming oral sex
is not something you are averse to, then the latter is more likely implicated.
In either case, a visit to the doctor is in order.
Do however, get tested for herpes 1& 2 IgG
& IgM titres & this will give you a clear idea.
The treatment & precautions we can discuss after these initial tests are done.
God Luck & trust you continue to practice safe sex. Wish you well. Cheers!
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
, Cosmetologist, Venreologist
Vikram Hospita, Bangalore, India.