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What Causes Release Of Fecal Matter During Intercourse?
Question: I am 72 year old female and have not been sexually active for 3 years or more. (Not by choice, but I haven't meet the "Right Guy".) I recently began a sexual relationship (since April) with a 70 year old man. We enjoy each other very much. Sometimes 3 times a week. During our last liaison I either was not as clean as I thought in the anal area or there was a releasee of fecal matter. He brought this to my attention in a text the following morning . It's a very delicate matter and we are concerned for each other. I've never had this happen before. is it normal? How can I prevent it? What do I do about it? I'm very concerned that he'll leave. I really like him a lot what do I do? I've made an appoint with my doctor but can get in to see her until Aug. 25th.
Thanking you in advance for your reply and guidance.
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Thanking you in advance for your reply and guidance.
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Brief Answer:
Maintaining hygiene will be suficient
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.
I read your query with keen interest to help you and understand your concerns.
First of all I like to inform you that it is not normal to have improper hygiene on regular basis before engaging in sexual activity. However it is possible to have such occurrences on some occasion which basically fits your description.
I mean to say that take it easy as you are not the first person and many of the individuals (including youngesters) forget to maintain hygiene when they are excited before sexual liaison.
In my opinion do the following things before you engage in sexual encounter
1. Visit wash room and use toilet to empty your bladder as well as bowel.
2. Clean the local area with soap and water before cuddling along with your partner
3. Eat healthy so there is avoidance of bowel disturbance in form of constipation or diarrhea.
I must assure you that these simple measures will be sufficient to keep you clean and healthy along with your partner.
I hope this helps you.
Feel free to write back to me if you have more questions.
Thanks and regards.
Maintaining hygiene will be suficient
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.
I read your query with keen interest to help you and understand your concerns.
First of all I like to inform you that it is not normal to have improper hygiene on regular basis before engaging in sexual activity. However it is possible to have such occurrences on some occasion which basically fits your description.
I mean to say that take it easy as you are not the first person and many of the individuals (including youngesters) forget to maintain hygiene when they are excited before sexual liaison.
In my opinion do the following things before you engage in sexual encounter
1. Visit wash room and use toilet to empty your bladder as well as bowel.
2. Clean the local area with soap and water before cuddling along with your partner
3. Eat healthy so there is avoidance of bowel disturbance in form of constipation or diarrhea.
I must assure you that these simple measures will be sufficient to keep you clean and healthy along with your partner.
I hope this helps you.
Feel free to write back to me if you have more questions.
Thanks and regards.
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Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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