Question: Dear Doc,
About 2 months ago I had unprotected sex with a FSW in the phillipines, not to sound degraded, however we were in the ocean when we had intercourse. I didn't think to ask about her health status until afterwards. She joked around and told me she had HIV, but then told me she is checked on weekly basis for STD's, and STI's. I have been experiencing swollen lymph node(s) starting in my groin, a week later near the right side of my chest, and a week later in both armpits, and last week my neck and now recently behind the top side of the right ear. Some are tender, hard, and uncomfortable, I have poked at them due to anxiety. I am very stressed out. about a month ago I had tests for the Clap, Gonorreha, Hep C, Syphillis, a cbc. All came back negative, and my cbc came back normal. Could this be from HIV? I am waiting to test after this month for HIV. My other questions are that from my stress and anxiety, could that have caused the swelling? I have lost my appetite some days either due to stressing about this, or if I do have the virus. I am getting 5 to 7 hrs of sleep I'm 22, Male, and very physically fit. Another thing I have thought about is could it be from traveling from country to country?
Correction, 1st symptom started about 3 weeks after that night. Everything following as i stated.

I understand that, what I would like to know is how common or I guess what are the statistics for heterosexual males to catch HIV from a female, and if my symptoms are like it would be from HIV? Basically I'm asking someone who is a specialist, what are my odds, its too late for a anitgen test, its been 2 months. I'm waiting for my 3 month to test, however I am obsessing over this to a point I'm exhausting myself. I will test in about 3 weeks. I'm just looking for hope that my odds are in favor of being negative.