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Question: Hi,
My question is:
My husband is a very negative kind of person.he always runs behind money and always lives under stress. he matters even a single XXXXXXX and thats the reason he lies under stress and headache, he has always a problem like this.
he is a very negative in everything. even we are discussing a small thing he has doubt in that even he is a very doubtful man with full of negativity and i beleive his parents and simblings are responsible for his this kind of natures (it is his basic enviornment) he dont have good frnds nor gud env.
please advise how can i help him by reducing his stress which cause regular headache rather how can i change him with positivity and how he can distract from running behind the money.
Thanks in advance
My question is:
My husband is a very negative kind of person.he always runs behind money and always lives under stress. he matters even a single XXXXXXX and thats the reason he lies under stress and headache, he has always a problem like this.
he is a very negative in everything. even we are discussing a small thing he has doubt in that even he is a very doubtful man with full of negativity and i beleive his parents and simblings are responsible for his this kind of natures (it is his basic enviornment) he dont have good frnds nor gud env.
please advise how can i help him by reducing his stress which cause regular headache rather how can i change him with positivity and how he can distract from running behind the money.
Thanks in advance
Brief Answer:
understanding life, love and affection
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you do not worry much. I cam understand your emotions. I am sure that your problems can be resolved.
Your husband is after money and therefore he is under a lot of stress. Your husband is very negative and doubts everything because of his negativity. I do understand.
We all know that money is a required commodity in this present world. old saying "Money never matters" is old.
Here is what we have to think about alternative ways. Your husband needs to understand his capacity to make money. If he is making money below par when compared to other people of his equivalent qualification and skill, there is a need to worry. But such a worry can be overcome with skill enhancing and improving the ability and development of personality.
If your husband is not much qualified and worries about income, encourage him to get more qualification.
In any case, you encouragement to improve his basic resources, such as education, skill, ability, should work well. People who are stressed always require a lot of compassion and motivation. Being his wife, you are the right person who can motivate and encourage him towards the right direction.
Whatever may happen, don't loose your hope and be cool. You can also advice him to understand the life and love and affection. Instead of doing it yourself, make him speak to me over phone. I am glad to counsel him through telephone.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
God bless you.
Dr. K V Anand PhD
understanding life, love and affection
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you do not worry much. I cam understand your emotions. I am sure that your problems can be resolved.
Your husband is after money and therefore he is under a lot of stress. Your husband is very negative and doubts everything because of his negativity. I do understand.
We all know that money is a required commodity in this present world. old saying "Money never matters" is old.
Here is what we have to think about alternative ways. Your husband needs to understand his capacity to make money. If he is making money below par when compared to other people of his equivalent qualification and skill, there is a need to worry. But such a worry can be overcome with skill enhancing and improving the ability and development of personality.
If your husband is not much qualified and worries about income, encourage him to get more qualification.
In any case, you encouragement to improve his basic resources, such as education, skill, ability, should work well. People who are stressed always require a lot of compassion and motivation. Being his wife, you are the right person who can motivate and encourage him towards the right direction.
Whatever may happen, don't loose your hope and be cool. You can also advice him to understand the life and love and affection. Instead of doing it yourself, make him speak to me over phone. I am glad to counsel him through telephone.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
God bless you.
Dr. K V Anand PhD
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