Question: OBGYN .... IM 53 yr old I was married to a women for 33 yrs that suffered from vaginal dryness . We tried sexual lubricants KY jell stuff they called emotion lotion but I found that they became sticky after a while and I didn't much care for it .
I have been with a new women for three yrs now , she just had all her reproductive organs removed and I noticed that she is also becoming dry . However we never used anything . But the other night we had sex and she was real sticky inside , my past experience wants to tell me that she used a lubricant I'm thinking she mite have had an affair her explanation was that she was dehydrated and the vaginal fluid becomes thicker . So my question is , is that true and if so would it also make it sticky . I really love this women and need to make the right decision . This is very difficult for me to ask . But thank you