Question: HELLO DOCTOR,
I AM XXXXXXX XXXXXXX A 40 YEAR OLD MALE. I HAVE SOMETHING VERY VERY IMPORTANT TO ASK YOU, AS SOMETHING HAS BEEN TROUBLING ME LATELY. FIRST LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT MY HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE.
FIRST OF ALL, I AM SUFFERING FROM ACUTE PREMATURE EJACULATION PROBLEM. ALL MY OTHER SEXUAL POWERS ARE FINE. I GET REGULAR ERECTIONS, MY ERECTIONS EASILY LAST FOR AN HOUR WITHOUT GOING DOWN. MY SEMEN VOLUME IS FINE. EVERYDAY I GET SOLID MORNING ERECTIONS.

I HAD PROBLEMS WITH ALL MY SEXUAL POWERS SIX MONTHS BACK. SO TO SOLVE THEM, I HAVE BEEN TAKING HOMEOPATHY MEDICINES FOR 6 MONTHS. THERE HAS BEEN GREAT IMPROVEMENT IN ALL THE DEPARTMENTS EXCEPT THE PREMATURE EJACULATION PROBLEM, AND THE PROBLEM I WILL DISCUSS IN THIS MAIL.

I LIVE A SUPER HEALTHY LIFESTYLE, NO SMOKING, NO DRINKING, NO JUNK FOODS, NOTHING, REGULAR EXERCISE, REGULAR SUPER MEDITATION, SO BASICALLY I LIVE A SUPER HEALTHY ABSOLUTELY ZERO STRESS LIFE. SO NOW I DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT COULD BE THE REAL PROBLEM, AS I AM A SUPER HEALTHY BEING IN ALL THE AREAS OF LIFE.

NOW LETS COME TO THE BIG PROBLEM WHICH IS REALLY REALLY TROUBLING ME. I AM SUPER FIR SUPER HAPPY MAN. I AM BLESSED WITH ALL THE GOOD THINGS. ONLY THIS THING IS TROUBLING ME SO MUCH. ITS A BIG BLOW TO THE SELF ESTEEM. IF THIS PROBLEM IS SOLVED, I SHALL BE THE MOST HAPPIEST PERSON ON EARTH AND WILL THANK YOU ALL MY LIFE FOR THIS. THE PREMATURE EJACULATION THING I WILL ASK IN THE NEXT MAIL.

RIGHT NOW, I WILL TALK ABOUT THE BIGGEST PROBLEM, WHICH IS :- FEELING VERY LESS SENSATIONS DURING SEX OR FOREPLAY.

SEE, WHENEVER I HAD SEX FEW YEARS BACK, I USED TO GET AROUSED BY TOUCH ON THE THIGHS OF A WOMAN, JUST TOUCHING THE BREASTS OF A GIRL, LIP KISSING A GIRL, LICKING THE BREASTS AND THIGHS ETC ETC ETC. NOW THESE SENSATIONS ARE MISSING. THEY ARE DEFINITELY THERE, BUT IN VERY LESS QUANTITY.
I READ A LOT THAT THESE SENSATIONS DONT GO BEFORE THE AGE OF 60 IN A SUPER HEALTHY MAN. AT ANY COST I WANT THESE SENSATIONS BACK. I AM READY TO WORK VERY HARD TO GET THESE SENSATIONS BACK. DO ANYTHING POSSIBLE. BECAUSE IF THESE SENSATIONS ARE MISSING, THERE IS NO POINT IN HAVING SEX OR FOREPLAY. NO MATTER HOW WELL OR HOW LONG YOU DO IT, YOU WONT ENJOY IF YOU DONT “FEEL”ANYTHING. MY SENSATIONS HAVE NOT DISAPPEARED. THEY ARE LESS, BUT THEY ARE THERE, SO I AM SURE THERE MUST BE A WAY TO INCREASE IT.

OKAY NOW THE MOST MOST MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION. ARE THESE PLEASURABLE SENSATIONS DIRECTLY RELATED TO YOUR LIBIDO [SEXUAL DESIRE] OR THE AMOUNT OF TESTOSTERONE HORMONE YOU HAVE. I MEAN, WILL INCREASING MY LIBIDO OR TESTOSTERONE HORMONE INCREASE THE SENSATIONS TOO?????
LIBIDO OR TESTOSTERONE I AM SURE I WILL INCREASING BY EATING LOT OF LIBIDO [SEXUAL DESIRE] OR TESTOSTERONE BOOSTING SUPERFOODS, AND REGULAR EXERCISE ETC ETC.

SO WHATS THE BEST WAY TO INCREASE THESE SENSATIONS.

WELL, FEELING AROUSED DURING SEX AND FEELING THESE SENSATIONS WHILE HAVING FOREPLAY. ARE THESE THE SAME THING????????? I AM VERY CONFUSED HERE.

I MEAN, IF I INCREASE MY POWER TO GET AROUSED, WILL THESE SENSATIONS INCREASE TOO??????????

IN GOOGLE, THERE ARE MANY WAYS TO INCREASE YOUR POWER TO GET AROUSED.

SO IF I AM MORE AROUSED, THEN WILL IT INCREASE THESE PLEASURABLE SENSATIONS TOO??????

I THINK BOTH ARE SAME THINGS, BUT I AM VERY CONFUSED. SO PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP.
MY WHOLE LIFE WILL BE WASTED IF MY SENSATIONS WONT INCREASE.
SORRY FOR WRITING A LONG PARAGRAPH, AND REALLY BORING YOU, BUT IN SHORT, I REALLY WANNA KNOW HOW TO INCREASE THESE PLEASURABLE SENSATIONS / OR POWER TO GET AROUSED. [AND ARE THEY BOTH THE SAME THING???

IN ONE LINE, WHY DO I “FEEL LESS SENSATIONS OR AROUSAL [IF THEY ARE SAME]” WHEN I TOUCH BREASTS, THIGHS. HOW TO INCREASE THIS.



WAITING VERY VERY ANXIOUSLY FOR YOUR ANSWER. PLEASE PLEASE DONT ANSWER IN 2-3 LINES. PLEASE GIVE A LITTLE DETAILED ANSWER, BECAUSE MY WHOLE LIFE’S HAPPINESS DEPENDS ON YOUR GOOD DETAILED ANSWER.
THANK YOU SO MUCH DOCTOR!!!!!

XXXXXXX XXXXXXX
40 YRS OLD MALE
[I AM VERY VERY DISCIPLINED HUMAN. SO WILL EXACTLY DO EVERYTHING YOU SAY]

Hello doctor, thanks for the wonderful answer.
One more question popped up in my mind.

You said...................I also like to make it clear that it is not libido or testosterone but your mindset which helps in increasing sensation.

Please could u speak a little about this. what exactly you meant by that. just tell me in short. because this is the most important part of the answer u wrote and might help me most significantly.

XXXX

Alright doctor!!!
Great answer.........super satisfied. I will follow what u said, it makes total sense.

Alright. Just one more important question, my diet is such that my omega 3,6,9 intake is pretty low, as i don't eat non veg food. so i did a lot of research on it on google. many places i read that flaxseed oil is a superfood for omega 3,6,9 intake, and thus increase the libido very nicely, as omega 3,6,9 are sex building hormones.

But many places also says that flaxseed contains something called lignans, which destroy the libido. i am very very confused, whether i shud take flaxseed oil. because omega 3, 6, 9 building is very important i think, not just for sex hormones for brain building too, as i am a very talented movie story writer and my brain concentration matters to me a lot.

or if flax is bad for libido, then is there some other way, i can fulfil my omega 3 6 9 intake. [some vegetarian way].
or maybe its possible, many places it was mentioned that taking more than two tablespoon of flax can be very bad for libido. so maybe taking it in safe quantities is good for libido.
please clear this big confusion doctor.


And please could you suggest me some best sexologist, a certified sexologist who is best in this field in XXXXXXX or delhi???? there are very few certified sexologist in XXXXXXX i have tried some big names but my premature ejaculation is not going.
i want the best sexologist in the whole country, in XXXXXXX or XXXXXXX who is a super expert in this field.

the premature ejaculation problem is really troubling me. please help.

waiting anxiously for a good reply.
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[it was a pleasure talking to you doctor!!! you are really really good. 5 stars to you!!!!]