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Question: Hello sir
My name XXXX from XXXXXXX . I'm 26 now . My height is 5.5 and weight is 65kg. Don't have any bad habits like smoking and drinking. Married two months back. My problem is getting ejaculate soon while having intercourse. It can last 2 to 4 minutes itself. Having habit of masturbating from last 5 years. Didn't had sexual intercourse with any body before marriage. Please help me sir.
My name XXXX from XXXXXXX . I'm 26 now . My height is 5.5 and weight is 65kg. Don't have any bad habits like smoking and drinking. Married two months back. My problem is getting ejaculate soon while having intercourse. It can last 2 to 4 minutes itself. Having habit of masturbating from last 5 years. Didn't had sexual intercourse with any body before marriage. Please help me sir.
Brief Answer:
It can be managed easily
Detailed Answer:
Hi, thanks for writing through HCM.
I have read your query and understood your concerns.
Normal ejaculation time ranges from 3 to 7 minutes. If it is lower than 3 minutes then it is premature ejaculation. Sometimes because of the habit of masturbation person may have developed conditioning to ejaculate early because in masturbation person makes hard strokes over penis and therefore the penis becomes over-sensitive and ejaculates early every time you have sex.
There is no need to worry. Following are the tips you can use to delay ejaculation:
1. Use a position in which you have least friction and sensation over penis. This you can identify by yourself only. Most of the men prefer woman on the top position.
2. Spend more time in foreplay before going for penetration.
3. You can have extra time condoms which contains anesthetic agent like benzocaine which for short duration desensitize your nerve stimulation on penis and you shall have ejaculation delayed.
4. You can do behavioral methods to delay ejaculation like stop-start technique, squeeze technique and other interruption technique. You can read details of these technique on the internet because it will be lengthy to describe here.
I usually do not prefer to give drugs like SSRI antidepressants which can delay ejaculation as a side effect. I usually ask my patients to learn the techniques available other than drugs to delay ejaculation because once a person starts using a drugs for this purpose he becomes dependent on it and obviously I don't want to make my patients dependent on drugs for sexual pleasure.
Hope I have answered your query. If you have further query then I shall be happy to help.
Wish you good health and sexual life.
It can be managed easily
Detailed Answer:
Hi, thanks for writing through HCM.
I have read your query and understood your concerns.
Normal ejaculation time ranges from 3 to 7 minutes. If it is lower than 3 minutes then it is premature ejaculation. Sometimes because of the habit of masturbation person may have developed conditioning to ejaculate early because in masturbation person makes hard strokes over penis and therefore the penis becomes over-sensitive and ejaculates early every time you have sex.
There is no need to worry. Following are the tips you can use to delay ejaculation:
1. Use a position in which you have least friction and sensation over penis. This you can identify by yourself only. Most of the men prefer woman on the top position.
2. Spend more time in foreplay before going for penetration.
3. You can have extra time condoms which contains anesthetic agent like benzocaine which for short duration desensitize your nerve stimulation on penis and you shall have ejaculation delayed.
4. You can do behavioral methods to delay ejaculation like stop-start technique, squeeze technique and other interruption technique. You can read details of these technique on the internet because it will be lengthy to describe here.
I usually do not prefer to give drugs like SSRI antidepressants which can delay ejaculation as a side effect. I usually ask my patients to learn the techniques available other than drugs to delay ejaculation because once a person starts using a drugs for this purpose he becomes dependent on it and obviously I don't want to make my patients dependent on drugs for sexual pleasure.
Hope I have answered your query. If you have further query then I shall be happy to help.
Wish you good health and sexual life.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Shanthi.E
Thank you for your valuable reply sir.
Give me any suggestion for hardening my penis. It won't get hard after a premature ejaculation.
Give me any suggestion for hardening my penis. It won't get hard after a premature ejaculation.
Brief Answer:
Foreplay would be the best option
Detailed Answer:
Hi, thanks for writing again.
After ejaculation, it is difficult to get erection immediately because men get pause after ejaculation of 15 to 20 minuted during which, it is difficult to get erection. Some men have capabilities of getting erection earlier after ejaculation particularly if they are not tired and continue the foreplay.
So I would suggest you to continue foreplay after ejaculation so that you can get erection again within 10 minutes.
Hope I have answered your query. If you do not have further query then close the discussion and rate the answer.
Wish you good health.
Foreplay would be the best option
Detailed Answer:
Hi, thanks for writing again.
After ejaculation, it is difficult to get erection immediately because men get pause after ejaculation of 15 to 20 minuted during which, it is difficult to get erection. Some men have capabilities of getting erection earlier after ejaculation particularly if they are not tired and continue the foreplay.
So I would suggest you to continue foreplay after ejaculation so that you can get erection again within 10 minutes.
Hope I have answered your query. If you do not have further query then close the discussion and rate the answer.
Wish you good health.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Shanthi.E
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