Brief Answer:
sexual desire varies in different people

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX

Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern.

Desire for sex varies according to age, physique, personality, brought up, values, environment, social circumstances, mood, occupation of self as well as partner, relationship with partner, attitude towards sex, hormonal make up, physical or psychological problem and so on.
In couples frequency of sex varies once a month to once a day. Sometime it can be thrice a day.

In general in initial marriage life frequency of sex is higher and as time passes frequency decreases.

Many couples do sex once in 10 days and it is normal for them. Main aspect is frequency and desire of partners should be matched and be in tuning.

In your case mismatch of both partner's desire is likely. You both should go for hormonal check up to make sure that both are physically normal in terms of hormones those are responsible for desire. This includes testosterone and prolactin. Your desire is relatively high and his desire is relatively low. His desire is normal or not that can only be confirmed after evaluation of his opinion. However if he can do sex well and satisfy you completely whenever you go for sex, there is no problem likely.
You need to go for couple sex counselling. Your husband should try to be more active to respect your desire and you should try to control your desire in positive manner to respect his willingness for sex. In conclusion mismatch of frequency should be corrected.

Let me know something more:
- Does he have any physical or psychological problem?

- Is he taking any medicine?

- What is his and your education and occupation?

- Apart from frequency of sex how is your sex life?

- How is your relationship with him apart from sex life (in terms of care, romance, etc.)?


Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.

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