Question: Hi I am 34 yrs old male .I have been married for 3 yrs but have not been able to have full intercourse with my wife because I can't penetrate her vagina .My penis starts getting softer & softer until we give up having sex. . I get good erection in the morning or while mastubrating with porn but when it comes to my wife I dont get aroused . Every one in our faimly keeps enquiring why we don't have a kid yet . They keep advising us to go see a doctor if there is any medical problem . It has now become a huge issue in our faimly & I feel embarrased that I can not penetrate my wife .Some times my wife suggests me to get her some medicine that will expand her vaginal opening so that it might become easier for me to enter inside her . Once or twice I tried viagra but didn't work & also I am not sure if my problem is something that viagra is used for treating . My wife has become very very depressed as she wants to have a kid but I have not been able to do a full intercourse to get her pregnant . Also I wanted to add that I do get aroused alot watching porn & frequently mastubrate thinking about those scenes but when it comes to having sex with my wife I rarely feel aroused . Sir I am very very disturbed by all of this & I will be grateful if you could provide me your valuable suggestions regarding my problems & how to proceed in the right direction to fix this issue . Your's Faithfully ------------------ S . T New Delhi , India