Brief Answer:
provide more information, masturbation is as such not harmful

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for writing to us. To help you I need more information from your side.

- What is size of penis in flaccid and in erect state?

- Does penis loos
- Are you married?
If yes duration of marriage?
If not married, provide details about sex life with girlfriend. Where and in which circumstances you do sex? Also describe last night experience with new girl.

- How did problem start? Any specific incidence was there?

- Do you pay more attention to erection while trying for intercourse?

- Do you have any physical illness? Are you taking any medicines?

- How is relationship with your partner? Any emotional or social problem is there?

- Is morning erection present?

- Is there any history of smoking or alcohol?

- Is there any difficulty in urinating?

- When did you do successful intercourse last?

Masturbation is normal and natural thing. It is done by 90% of the males in the world, mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage..Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends on individual libido, wish and timing. it neither causes any weakness nor any problem in sexual activity.

I will be happy to help further after your response.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.

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Brief Answer:
no physical problem likely

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for information.

You have morning erection and you can masturbate so there is no possibility of physical problem.
Your size if also fine.
Normal size of penis in flaccid state is 2 to 4 inches (5 to 10 cm) while in erect position 3.5 to 6 inches (9 to 15 cm). It varies according to body structure and race. Size of penis does not matter much for satisfying partner.
Anterior -3 inches of female vaginal wall is sensitive to sexual stimuli. Only 3.5 inches of erect penis is sufficient to satisfy female.

As such there is no medicine or exercise which can increase basic natural size of penis. No evidence supports such pills effectiveness. Only surgical intervention can increase the size of penis.

As you do not have any experience of sex there is no way that we can diagnose any problem. You are fine and will be able to enjoy without any problem.

Just avoid performance anxiety.

Sometime due to fatigue, lack of mood, situational problem or environmental changes man can fail in sex. It is normal phenomenon. However when this failure makes person apprehensive about erection, sex life is affected. This is called performance anxiety. After such failure when person actively thinks about erection/ejaculation or success of intercourse during sex/masturbation his mind is likely diverted to such thoughts. For constant erection continuous exciting/romantic/erotic feelings should be there in mind. If mind diverted to concern about ejaculation, early ejaculation occurs.

While doing sex keep yourself relax.

Whenever you go for sex, spare enough time in foreplay. You should not think actively about erection, your mind must be occupied with sexual/romantic feelings. During foreplay your partner should try to arouse you and note that your penis gets erection or not. When she feels that penis is sufficiently erect she herself should try to put erect penis in vagina gradually and you should continue your foreplay feelings without being conscious about ejaculation. You must try to enjoy and only enjoy.

All the best.

Do not hesitate to ask your remaining doubt if any.

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Brief Answer:
you do not have physical problem

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Sorry for late response. Considering your history there is no physical problem. Your concerns are purely psychological. No need to worry. As you are able to masturbate and morning erection are there means you can do sex well also. There will be no problem in sex life after marriage. You definitely can satisfy your partner. Even if you are not confident after my answer you can consult local psychiatrist/sexologist for detail sex counseling.

All the best.

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